It seems as though our sweet little Camden is suffering from severe attachment issues. It first became apparent to us that out little guy loved being with us when we noticed that he refused to sleep anywhere but in bed with us or in our arms. This little predicament leads to one tired and fussy little baby when he can't get his naps in, which leads into our next issue; Camden cries a lot, and by a lot I mean all the time.
If he is not being held he is not happy. We cannot put him in his swing, on the couch or in his papasan chair for more than one minute. After one minute he realizes that he isn't all warm and cozy with us and screams. So, this is quite challenging. If I wear him in our carrier all the time, I put him at risk for bodily injury- ie. cooking at the stove and the last time I tried to do laundry he fell right out of the carrier and into the laundry pile (thank GOD!) when I bent over.
I am at my wits end. I remember with Carter he would fall fast asleep after nursing and I could grab a few minutes to not only preform a task, but to BREATHE, which to my understanding is very important! Dan and I have to take turns all day long. If one of us has to shower or eat, the other one has to hold Camden. Forget going to the bathroom, there is just no time for that. Dan goes back to work tomorrow after being home for the holidays, so I will no longer have my extra set of hands around to help. Poor Carter probably wants his new baby brother to go away.
Okay, I'm done venting. But, if there is anyone out there that has a suggestion as to how we might gain access to both our hands for a few minutes, we would greatly appreciate any advice.
Wednesday, January 2, 2008
High Needs Baby Alert : Advice Needed!
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Well, a little crying won't kill him. I know those are the last words you can even *think* about coming out of MY mouth :) I went through the exact same thing - both my kids were screamers, but it was really difficult with Colin.
It is hard to balance baby and tasks while in a carrier, but not impossible. You might look into a pouch - you might be able to slide him around to your side or back for a moment to do something. But babywearing is awesome when you need to use the bathroom! And keep experimenting - he will like something...probably...maybe... Colin HATED the swing, while it was Delaney's #1 favorite place.
Give me a call, we can talk about it. I've totally been there, done that and so far we've all survived! And remember - it only lasts a couple of months :)
I agree with Tara. A little crying never hurt anyone. Maybe after a few days he will learn it isn't so bad to be left alone. The crying part is going to suck but I think in the end it will totally pay off.
When both of mine were babies and I was at my wits end I would stick them in their crib and go outside for a couple of minutes and it really helped me calm down.
I'll come over and hold him for a little while for you :)
Yes,
i know it is hard right now, Hayden gets like that every now and then but not always. i couldn't imagine it being a constant thing. I think though that letting him cry it out for a little while would be okay, but it is not going to be easy.
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